se détacher

With regard to clothes/shoes, I would use it if a button or buckle actually came off.  But the dictionary has it as "to come undone."  I would use "défaire" if a shoe were untied or a button unbuttoned and it's probably equivalent to "undone" which is heard without being more specific ("untied, unbuttoned").  Will I hear "se  détacher" regarding clothes when something has not physically separated?  

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